Solitaire Ring Meaning and Symbolism

If a deck of cards is the only thing that springs to mind when you hear the word “solitaire,” then you’ve got some catching up to do when it comes to the symbolism of the setting. We’re happy to oblige. Keep reading to join us on an exploration of solitaire diamond rings and their meaning and symbolism.

What Is a Solitaire Ring? 

First of all, you’re probably more familiar with solitaire ring settings than you think. You might not think of an engagement ring when you hear the word “solitaire” but you probably imagine a solitaire setting when someone asks you to picture an engagement ring.

A diamond engagement ring is the most iconic solitaire engagement ring out there and an incredibly popular style. In fact, it’s far and away the most popular of all engagement ring styles due to its classic and flattering look. Also, being that “solitaire” simply denotes the number of stones on the ring, there are several solitaire ring designs available, like oval cut, emerald cut and round cut.

What makes it a solitaire engagement ring? That’s not hard to figure out either — it’s the single, solitary stone. Often, the gemstone is a single diamond, but just about any precious or semi-precious stone can be a solitaire. If you have your heart set on a classic diamond solitaire, both natural diamonds and lab-grown diamonds are excellent options. Moissanite is also a popular choice for those who love the look of diamonds — but not their price tag. 

Unlike other engagement ring settings, a solitaire setting features a center stone that sits atop the band all by itself. Technically, any piece of jewelry with a single stone setting is a solitaire, including earrings and necklaces. But usually when the term comes up in conversation, people love unique solitaire engagement rings.  

How did solitaire rings claim their solitary throne atop the engagement ring visibility rankings? And what kind of symbolism has clung to this setting on its long journey to timeless icon status?

Read on.

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The Allure of Solitaires

Diamond solitaire rings have been a symbol of elegance and commitment for generations. Their timeless appeal lies in their simplicity and the way they allow the beauty of a single, carefully chosen gemstone to shine. When set in a solitaire engagement ring, the stone becomes a powerful expression of a couple’s unique bond. 

Whether set in classic white gold or warm yellow gold, a solitaire ring speaks volumes without ever saying a word. White gold provides a modern, sleek appearance that allows the gemstone to take center stage, while yellow gold offers a traditional, warm glow that complements the stone’s brilliance. Rose gold is another modern option that lends a warm touch to bridal jewelry. 

The Symbolism of Solitaires

There are two reasons why a solitaire diamond would be your first choice to draw in Pictionary.  The first is that it is the most recognizable. That makes it easy to guess. The second is its simplicity. That makes it easy to draw.

At the most basic level, the game of Pictionary shares a bond with jewelry because it is about communication through symbols. And simplicity and recognizability are trump cards in communication. 

That kind of elegant efficiency is part of the solitaire ring's symbolism. And it is a welcome bit of minimalism in a world full of oversharing and noisy messaging. It says “already engaged” in the simplest, politest way possible. Now, the precise meaning of that arrangement might vary from couple to couple — solitaire diamond rings are also popular as pre-engagement rings and promise rings — but the gist is pretty clear.

Now you might think the form of the setting is a bit lonely looking to be the symbol of a relationship. But that’s where you’re wrong. The solitaire suggests the importance of that singularly significant other. “There’s only one person in the world for me, and it’s you,” the gemstone whispers softly. 

A solitaire doesn’t have side stones or a shank adorned with pave diamonds to amplify its sparkle like other types of rings, but the lack of ornamentation means that less of the stone itself is hidden. Even when a solitaire setting is raised, the prongs are usually exceedingly thin, so you can see exactly what it is. That’s why solitaire rings are symbols of vulnerability and sincerity.

And that’s why so much craft goes into a solitaire stone because so much of it is under scrutiny. And also why it is a showcase for such a marvelous variety of shapes. The solitaire style works equally well for unique pear-shaped engagement rings as it does for independent pieces of princess cut perfection like The Olivia. Emerald cut and cushion cut solitaires are lovely, too. No matter what shape of cut diamond you prefer, it will make a beautiful solitaire. 

Who Are Solitaire Rings for?

Anyone can wear a solitaire ring, of course. These rings are very versatile. The classic look of a solitaire ring, like a simple black dress or a pair of aviator sunglasses, makes it easy for anyone to look good wearing it. You can even find solitaire rings with a rose gold or yellow gold metal band to fit your personal preferences. Platinum, sterling silver and white gold are good options, too. However, solitaire diamond engagement rings do tend to flatter certain hand types more than others: 

People with Smaller Hands

While solitaire rings flatter all hand sizes and shapes, they’re especially stylish if you have smaller hands. Smaller hand sizes benefit from simpler, more classic solitaire designs and diamond shapes. It’s easier to stylistically overwhelm small hands than larger ones, so people with smaller hands tend to look best in more minimalist stylings.

Classic Tastes

If you love timeless looks, there are few things more timeless than a solitaire ring. While unique engagement rings can be trendy, your solitaire ring will look as good in 30 years as it does today. While not the flashiest choice, the simpler stylings give this ring staying power that very few rings have. You can always add a wedding band if you want to add visual depth.

The Importance of the Prong Setting

One of the key elements in a solitaire engagement ring is the prong setting. This setting typically features four or six prongs that securely hold the single diamond in place while maximizing its exposure to light. The prong setting is crucial not only for security but also for enhancing the diamond's sparkle and brilliance.

The number of prongs can affect both the look and feel of the ring. Four-prong settings allow more light to enter the diamond, potentially increasing its brilliance. On the other hand, six-prong settings offer additional security, especially for larger stones, and can create a more rounded appearance.

If You Want a More Adventurous Setting...

The classic four- or six-prong setting on a solitaire stone is great and it’ll always look great. However, if you want to get a bit more adventurous with your wedding ring styling, a simple solitaire stone complements that well. The more minimalist stone will give way to a more creative setting and add balance, whereas a three stone ring wouldn’t allow for the same creativity in your setting.

Of course, even though it is timeless and popular, the classic design of a single diamond isn’t always for everyone. If you prefer a halo engagement ring or another style that features more than just a single gemstone, that’s totally okay! But if you hear the whisper of a solitaire, it might be calling to you. You can trust that kind of call. Solitaires have a way of telling the truth. Shop now to find your perfect solitaire.

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